The Mother with NPD needs her daughjter to be wrong: Narcissistic mother:"If you now tell me I hurt you despite my efforts not to, I might feel so broken by that “criticism” that I need you to be wrong. If I tried my best and still didn’t do as well as I wanted to, what does that say about me? And what have I done to my child? And here’s a taboo thought: What did my parents do to me? It’s all too much; you must be mistaken."